Sunday, October 19, 2014

PRIVATE PARTY and THE RETURN OF FUCK CLUB!


Fit fans of safe-sex parties can look forward to a fanfuckingtastic week ahead. Not only is it time for another round of PRIVATE PARTY, but FUCK CLUB is finally coming out of its extended hiatus to have their first ASS ACTION party in months.

In case you've been living in a nunnery and haven’t yet heard, PRIVATE PARTY and the ASS ACTION parties are two of the hottest safe-sex parties in town. PRIVATE PARTY is this Wednesday followed by THE RETURN OF FUCK CLUB HALLOWEEN PARTY the following Sunday. Ideally if you have the body and the stamina you will want to get to both of them, as they offer two completely different experiences and should complement each other nicely as a sexual double-whammy.



For those of you who haven't been, PRIVATE PARTY is pretty much what you would expect a big New York safe-sex party to be, except the usual New York hard attitude is traded in for friendliness. PP is indeed a big orgy-styled Bacchanal with usually anywhere between 70 to 100+ guys going at it sprawled all over a large midtown loft. The crowd ranges from twinks with average bodies to muscular guys in their 30s and a few guys in great shape in their 40s as well, but the twinks are usually in the majority making this party at times look a bit like a Bel Ami video. Being that this is midtown, the vibe tends to be along the lines of what you might find at a Hell’s Kitchen bar like Therapy or Industry…if everyone at Therapy and Industry was naked and fucking around together. Although lighting is low, this is one of the more brightly lit parties so you never have a problem seeing what all is going on. And with all those horny guys in their 20s and condoms to be had everywhere, there is a LOT going on.


And on the other end of the selective safe-sex party spectrum is the ASS ACTION FUCK CLUB parties which are a much smaller and more intimate experience then PP. Apparently the hosts have tightened up the membership list during their hiatus as to only include muscular, athletic guys, so you won’t find any average-body twinks at this party any longer, but you will find a very hot group of men. The hosts can afford to be so hyper-selective because they only allow 15 members to each party. They intentionally keep the group small to encourage more group interaction, so at times this party can resemble a naked game of twister.  In fact, it isn't uncommon to see all 15 guests on the bed at the same time in a big writhing pile of muscles, sucking and fucking, and those are times which will be etched in my erotic memory forever. Keeping the group smaller also means that everyone gets a chance to know each other a bit and become more comfortable with each other which leads to a lot of hot sex.

The size isn't the only difference between these two parties, although they both are "very selective," they tend to attract much different crowds. PP caters to the “white-collar professional crowd” along with students and the men there tend to skew more toward “metrosexual” types, while FC, being based in Washington Heights draws more of an edgier and more racially diverse blue-collar-type crowd and has a more masculine vibe. So if you like businessmen, PP would be your thing. Construction workers? FC would be more your flavor. Like both? Then go for both! Variety is, after all, the spice of life.





Differences aside though, there are some things that the parties do have in common, and they are things you should definitely be aware of if you are interested in attending either of them.

First of all, did I mention these were safe-sex parties? I believe I did. A few times. And for good reason. These are two parties that take safe-sex very seriously. Barebacking is absolutely not tolerated at either party, so if that is what you like to do, know that you won’t be able to do it at either of these. Neither the hosts, nor your fellow party revelers will stand for it.


Secondly, both of the parties have extensive (but very different) screening procedures so don’t think that you can contact the hosts the day of (or even the day before) and expect to get in. If you want to attend this week’s parties you will need to get started…oh…about right now.

For PP you will first need to email the host letting him know your interest. (You don’t need to send any pics with the email.) He will then contact you to set up a preliminary phone interview. Once you have done that then you will be given a date and time for your main interview (usually a half-hour before the next party). You will then need to do an in-the-nude interview in front of a small (also nude) panel of PP members to see if your look and personality is a good fit for the group.

To apply for FC, they are now using a new picture verification procedure. You’ll need to email the hosts for a special code that will be assigned only to you, and then take a face and body pic holding a sign with the special code to prove that the pic is really you and is really current. So the cretins that like to submit fake or old pics won’t be able to get away with that anymore, or at least not with this party.

These procedures may, in the case of both PP and FC, seem somewhat excessive but it’s the way that the hosts are able to maintain the standards of their respective parties. And as complicated as the screening processes may sound, in reality they really are quite simple and painless and not nearly as much of a pain-in-the-ass as they may appear. And who really benefits, of course, from the stringent screening are the party goers, as it insures that those who do make it into the groups will be among a very fine and very sexy group of men.

So are you ready to start making some seriously hot safe-sex memories? Ones that you will play over and over in your head like your favorite porn, except you will be living in the middle of it instead of watching from the sidelines? Then contact the hosts now. As in RIGHT now. Because you know the old saying...you snooze...

For Private Party, contact the host at PRIVATE.PARTY@MSN.COM

For Fuck Club, apply through their website at ASSACTIONNYC.COM

Here are the specific party details:


Wednesday, October 22nd:


PRIVATE PARTY (Midtown West) Great social sex party with a good mix of twinks to muscle dudes to toned average guys. This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before: social, safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude. The best part is that there is plenty of hot sex at this party – not just standing around. Recommended.
THE HOST SAYS: “PRIVATE PARTY is an exclusive monthly, all-nude, safe-sex and social event for well-built, well-groomed, handsome, professional men and students 18- 45. PRIVATE PARTY events are safe, discreet, friendly, completely drug-free and open only to our members. In order to maintain our standards all potential members are screened by phone prior to a brief confirmatory in-person interview. Members of this large organized group are in fine physical and mental shape ,work-out/exercise on a regular basis in addition to being confident, interesting and accomplished. This is a highly screened group who practice safe-sex and enjoy mixing and meeting in a drug-free, friendly, all-nude, social and sexual environment."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Very Selective
VIBE: Social and Friendly
SS/BB: A safe-sex party
DONATION: $25 and $1 clothes check
SUPPLIES: Drinks, snacks, condoms and lube, towels and shower amenities
TIME: 8:00pm-11:30 
FREQUENCY: Monthly, usually on a Wednesday 
CROWD: 80 to 100+ guys, mostly white collar professionals and students
AGE: 18-45 (no one over 45, average age is 25-35)
SPACE: Safe, clean private loft apartment
LIGHTING: Atmospheric lighting with full visibility while appropriate for the mood.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into well-build, well-groomed white-collar professionals and students, guys into safe-sex, guys into younger “twink” types, guys tired of the bar scene, first-timers.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into leather or other various fetishes. Guys into heavily-inked guys, guys into men with facial or body hair, guys into masculine beefy types. Guys who like to PnP.
GETTING IN: E-mail PRIVATE.PARTY@MSN.COM for complete info


Sunday, October 26th


ASS ACTION FUCK CLUB (Washington Heights) A fraternity-styled club exclusively for guys with muscular athletic bodies and friendly personalities. The hosts have recently taken the party back to its roots as a more intimate gathering (its usually around 15 guys and never more than 20) to encourage more group interaction and to make the party more selective. The result? Well let’s just say the party really lives up to it’s name. Hot athletic guys + friendly no-attitude vibe + bowls of condoms everywhere (including Magnums for the big boys) + bottles of Gun Oil lube …you do the math. Every party has a theme and this Sunday is The Return of Fuck Club Halloween Party where guests are promised "lots of tricks and treats...especially tricks." Guests are encouraged to "stick close together in a haunted house setting for a naked muscular monster mash." A shower and towels are provided.
RATING: Very Selective
VIBE: Friendly and social with no attitude
TIME: 5pm to 9pm, must arrive by 6pm
CROWD: Guest list is limited to 15. Racially mixed, above average to very hot
AGES: 21 to 40s
DONATION: $20
SS/BB: A safe-sex only party
SPACE: Private apartment
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, snacks, sodas, shower and towel
FREQUENCY: Once a month on a Sunday
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Due to limited space on the membership list, the hosts are currently only considering good-looking guys with muscular athletic bodies for new members. You can find out more about the party and apply for a membership at assactionnyc.com



See you there men!

Thursday, October 16, 2014

Group M4M Sex Parties for the week of Friday, October 17th to Thursday, October 23rd





My dear fellow group-sex aficionados:

Here is a listing of all the parties I *believe* to be happening this week. If the host/s has confirmed the details of the party directly with me then I list the details as "VERIFIED." If the hosts have not confirmed the party details with me, I list the details as "UNVERIFIED." 
I highly recommend that you do not attend a party going solely off of the information here without contacting the hosts first, especially if the information here is UNVERIFIED. Most parties do require that you submit pics and stats and that you are added to an invite list before you can attend, and there is always the chance of last minute changes or cancellations. 

Another great source for finding parties is the "Parties and Events" section of adam4adam.com, so I recommend that you check that site for parties as well, especially if you are looking for parties outside of the NYC area.


A GUIDE TO DOOR POLICIES

Here is a listing of what the different “DOOR POLICY” terms mean. These should not be taken as an indication of how “good” a party is. I have been to some Very Selective parties where I have been bored because there were mostly men standing around acting like they were all too good for each other, and I’ve also been to Open Door parties that have been full-out fuckfests filled with lots of hot group action. These categories are simply intended to be a guide as to whether the party is one you would physically fit in to and an indication as to what kinds of body types you will likely find there.  

Here are the Door Policy Categories:

Very Selective – Only good-looking men in great physical shape with toned bodies and visible muscle mass are allowed in. These parties also usually have a limited age range.

Selective – Only men with above-average to average bodies are allowed.  “Average” refers to men who are height-weight-proportionate and do not have much visible muscle tone or muscle mass. But you will also usually find quite a few men in great shape at these parties as well.

Somewhat Selective – A wide range of body types. You may find some above-average athletic men and also some out-of-shape men with extra pounds on them, but not overly obese. Most guys at these parties tend to have average bodies.

Not Selective – All body types are allowed. You still need to be on an invite list in order to attend, and with some Not Selective parties you may need to meet some other entrance criteria such as age or race.

Open Door – General admission. Everyone is welcome and you don’t need to be on an invite list in order to attend. Just show up.


Here are the parties for this Friday through Thursday:

Friday, October 17th

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens) Large party in a huge industrial loft-type space with private rooms, booths, a "cinema lounge" and one particularly dubious pitch-black area. Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. A good party for average guys.
THE HOST SAYS: "Hot playground with mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Laid back
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
TIME: 8pm-4am
FREQUENCY: Every Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SPACE: former warehouse-type space loft
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces pitch black
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races especially Latinos, average and out-of-shape guys, guys into anon scenes.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies.
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to playgroundqueens@aol.com

PEAK (Chelsea) One of the “Chelsea Duplex Parties” held in a space close to Penn Station.
THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."

VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating
SS/BB: Safe Sex
DONATION: $10 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party)
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always available
TIME: 8pm to 1am (doors close at Midnight)
FREQUENCY: Every Friday and Tuesday (Mixed Safe Sex and BB parties every Sunday and Thursday.)
CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men.
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s.
SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levels
LIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenance
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude.
GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.


NYC NAKED WRESTLERS ( Gramercy) This week Friday night NYC Naked Wrestlers is taking over the whole evening over at the Gramercy Duplex. METROPOLIS is scheduled to return next week.
THE HOSTS SAY: "New York's only wrestling group where men go completely naked and give in to the ultimate sexual surrender at the end of each match while surrounded by naked members getting off with one another on the sidelines. Two floors: first one offering wrestling/sex matches, second one combined group sex party with the select men of TESTOSTERONE. Open to all fit in-shape guys who enjoy watching or participating in naked combat without restrictions or limitations, exhibitionists and voyeurs welcome to attend, and there is no pressure to participate in the matches unless interested in doing so."

DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Social and Friendly 
SS/BB: Both Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $25 entry, and clothes-check gratuities are appreciated
SUPPLIES: Condoms and Lube
TIME: 9pm-3am, doors close at 11pm
FREQUENCY: several times a month, usually every other Friday
CROWD: 40-60 guys
AGE: All ages (over 21)
SPACE: Private Penthouse Duplex apartment with two bathrooms
LIGHTING: 1st floor brightly-lit for wrestling matches on the mats, 2nd floor Viewing Gallery and darkened Lounge for the group sex orgy
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Anyone who enjoys watching naked guys wrestle and have sex on the mats. Guys interested in exloring their desire to participate in these kind of matches. Guys who enjoy hooking up with masculine men for hot, hardcore, no-attitude fun. Friendly, outgoing individuals who enjoy interracial interaction.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys. Men with racial hang-ups. Guys who parTy. High-maintance types with an attitude.
GETTING IN: Send stats and a recent shirtless pic from the waist up to Nick at nycnakedwrestlers@gmail.com or check out www.gayguysglobal.net


THE NYJP JOCK PARTY (Midtown) New York Jock Party is one of the largest parties in NYC and also widely considered one of the best for those looking for jocks with toned and muscled physiques. The host is very discriminating so the place is filled with hot men. It can also at times be filled with attitude, but that seems to come with the territory. This is not a party for the modest or shy as you are required to check everything including your underwear, and you will be given a small towel to cover up. Tonight, however is a Jockstrap party where guys are encouraged to "Wear one, play in one, get off in one" so apparently the usual "completely nude" rule is not in effect tonight.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
RATING: Very Selective
VIBE: Some attitude.
TIME: 10pm-5am
CROWD: 50-70 young, hot men
AGES: Mostly 20s and 30s, few in-shape men in their 40s
DONATION: $28; $20 after 3am
SS/BB: A safe sex party
SPACE: Hot, clean, huge studio space, two bathrooms, shower
SUPPLIES: Drinks, snacks, condoms/lube.
FREQUENCY:  2X a month, Fri, Sat, Sundays, sometimes Thursdays
LIGHTING: Good, sometimes too dark for such hot men
GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to thenyjp@gmail.com

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks.
THE HOSTS SAYS: "Weekly sex parties in Brooklyn NY for in-shape men of color and a very very select few whites who send pics and get approved....I have the biggest and best Safe Sex party that continues to grow and become more popular. My parties are discrete and well organized. No shirts or under shirts are allowed. If your stomach is too big, you will not get in. No weed smoking or illegal drugs are allowed. I provide a safe, comfortable, spacious environment for men of color."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS / BB: Safe sex only
DONATION: $15
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, refreshments, fresh clean towels
TIME: 12midnight-7am
FREQUENCY: held every Friday, Sat and Sunday
CROWD: Varies
AGE: 18-40
SPACE: Huge space, two floors.
LIGHTING: A bit dark but eyes get used to it.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Men of color, men into men of color, men who like to play safe
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Barebackers, out of shape guys.
GETTING IN: Check out http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@alisthomeinspection.com with your pics and stats.




ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). After-hours party. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. This is not a mandatory clothes check party but it is highly recommended that you check your valuables. Pickpockets have been known to clean out pockets while pants are around ankles. I also find the level of aggression to be higher at this party than most and that it seems to attract a handful of men that do not know how to respect boundaries or take "no" for an answer. But as long as you go in armed with this knowledge and react accordingly, there are usually some hot early morning times to be had here. 
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door 
VIBE: no attitude
SS/BB: Safe sex and BB
DONATION: $20
SUPPLIES: condom/lubes
TIME: 3am-7am, (The party really takes off around 4am when many bars close)
FREQUENCY: every Friday and Saturday night
CROWD: Gets around 70 people on Fridays and 100 Sat. night (Sun. morning).
AGE: no restriction
SPACE: Paddles sex club
LIGHTING: Good, some dark areas
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who like a diverse crowd, voyours, average and out-of-shape guys, tourists/visitors, guys who want to get off after the bars before they head home.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys only into gym bodies, guys with attitude.
GETTING IN: Check out Paddles' website for location and directions: http://paddlesnyc.com/


Saturday, October 18th


CHASER'S CHOICE (Gramercy) A party for chubs and the guys who love them. 
THE HOSTS SAY: "Chaser's Choice is a sexually-charged party for men of all ages (18 and over) who have large bellies, big tits, great chub cocks, and the horny chasers who love playing with them. All types of guys are accepted at this party: cute chubs in their 20s and 30s, daddy chubs, voluptuous extra large chubs, mature beefy bears, skinny and hot muscle admirers, all coming together for afternoon fun in a spacious penthouse duplex apartment. Our guestlist includes guys from all over the world. We extend a special invitation to men with small penises and their admirers! Everyone is welcome!
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Social and Friendly
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $25
SUPPLIES: Condoms and Lube
TIME: 2pm-6pm (Doors close at 5pm)
FREQUENCY: Weekly Saturdays
CROWD: 30-40 guys
AGE: All ages (over 18)
SPACE: Private duplex apartment with two bathrooms
LIGHTING: Good, some darker rooms upstairs
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Anyone who enjoys playing with large masculine men.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys. Men with racial hang-ups. Judgmental guys with attitude.
GETTING IN: Request invite at: chaserschoicenyc@gmail.com.  You can find more info at: www.gayguysglobal.net



DICKPLAY PARTY (Bronx) Party at Ed and Steve’s, an interracial couple. The hosts think of the group as being a hand selected group of guys who are into interracial sex and don't have attitudes. It's a mix of guys, white, black, Latin, occasionally Asian. Most guys are naked, but not required. 
THE HOSTS SAY: "Announcing the grand reopening at new Bronx location.Mandatory Total Nudity (no undergarments, jock straps, flip flops, socks, headgear, jewelry) We provide refreshments and snacks, condoms and lube. Bring your own booze. No glass bottles. This week we invite you to join us in The Fantasy Suite"
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: Laid back, no attitude
TIME: 5pm to 11pm
CROWD: 20-40 men
AGES: 18-60s (Average age is 35-45+)
DONATION: $10 before 6pm (exact change required) $20 after
SS/BB: Some safe sex, but mostly BB
SPACE: Email hosts for location
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Usually twice a month, but often weekly (on weekends)
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to EdAndSteve@verizon.net; or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve


THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens) Large party in a huge industrial loft-type space with private rooms, booths, a "cinema lounge" and one particularly dubious pitch-black area. Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. A good party for average guys.
THE HOST SAYS: "Hot playground with mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Laid back
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
TIME: 8pm-5:30am
FREQUENCY: Every Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SPACE: former warehouse-type space loft
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces pitch black
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races especially Latinos, average and out-of-shape guys, guys into anon scenes.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies.
GETTING IN: For more party info contact the hosts at playgroundqueens@aol.com


SPAM PARTY (Park Slope, Brooklyn) Not a M4M party, but may interest the more adventurous of you. A play party where dykes, fags, bisexuals and transgendered folks get together for a sexually charged underwear party. Mandatory pants-check down to your underwear. 
THE HOSTS SAY: "This is NYC's only sex party for the entire LGBT community!  It is sociologically the most interesting scene I have ever experienced.  You might not get off sexually (although gay and bisexual men are the majority), but you will see things you've never seen before!  Straight men are not allowed. (They're too predatory regarding women!) This week is the SPAM Halloween Party  and we're having a lipsynch showcase for anyone who wants to perform! You just have to bring your own mp3 on a CD or flash drive."
DOOR POLICY: Open Door, except no straight men
VIBE: VERY social and friendly
DONATION: $20 for men, $10 for women and trans (+ $1 for clothes check)
SS/BB: Strictly safe safe only.  Anyone caught barebacking will be told to leave.
SUPPLIES: free condoms, lube, latex gloves, hand sanitizer, mouthwash, moist towelettes in bathrooms, filtered water fountain, sweet snacks, cotton bath towels for shower

TIME: 11pm to 4am,  door closes 3:45am

FREQUENCY: monthly on the the third Saturday night of every month.

CROWD:  About 60 people with a broad mix of gender expressions, ages, ethnicities and varieties of sexual expression and fetish wear!
AGE: All ages are represented, average age is late 30's.
SPACE: A 2000 sq. ft. basement "dungeon" in a private residence, with a maze, glory holes, a prison, 5 beds, 3 slings, 3 toilets, urinal, sinks, shower,  3 porn monitors, many semi-private areas to hide in and play.
LIGHTING:  mostly moderate red lighting. No areas completely dark.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Those curious to be in a sexual environment with other genders (men, women, trans) and see what happens.  Also anyone who wants to dress differently: bearded men in panties, bras or heels.  Women with strap ons!  Voyeurs welcome.  There's a live DJ so those wanting a gay pride type celebration with lots of variety and no attitude are most encouraged to come!
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR:  Guys intending to have sex with women or would touch someone without asking permission first.  Boundaries must be respected in this mixed environment. This is strictly a "queer" party.  No barebacking or drugs.  Attitude-free. 
GETTING IN: Call the hotline: 718-789-4053.  Or visit the website: http://www.submitparty.com/Spam_Party.html

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks.
THE HOSTS SAYS: "Weekly sex parties in Brooklyn NY for in-shape men of color and a very very select few whites who send pics and get approved....I have the biggest and best Safe Sex party that continues to grow and become more popular. My parties are discrete and well organized. No shirts or under shirts are allowed. If your stomach is too big, you will not get in. No weed smoking or illegal drugs are allowed. I provide a safe, comfortable, spacious environment for men of color."

UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS / BB: Safe sex only
DONATION: $15
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, refreshments, fresh clean towels
TIME: 12midnight-7am
FREQUENCY: held every Friday, Sat and Sunday
CROWD: Varies
AGE: 18-40
SPACE: Huge space, two floors.
LIGHTING: A bit dark but eyes get used to it.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Men of color, men into men of color, men who like to play safe
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Barebackers, out of shape guys.
GETTING IN: Check out http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@alisthomeinspection.com with your pics and stats


ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). After-hours party. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. This is not a mandatory clothes check party but it is highly recommended that you check your valuables. Pickpockets have been known to clean out pockets while pants are around ankles. I also find the level of aggression to be higher at this party than most and that it seems to attract a handful of men that do not know how to respect boundaries or take "no" for an answer. But as long as you go in armed with this knowledge and react accordingly, there are usually some hot early morning times to be had here. 
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door 
VIBE: no attitude
SS/BB: Safe sex and BB
DONATION: $20
SUPPLIES: condom/lubes
TIME: 3am-7am, (The party really takes off around 4am when many bars close)
FREQUENCY: every Friday and Saturday night
CROWD: Gets around 70 people on Fridays and 100 Sat. night (Sun. morning).
AGE: no restriction
SPACE: Paddles sex club
LIGHTING: Good, some dark areas
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who like a diverse crowd, voyours, average and out-of-shape guys, tourists/visitors, guys who want to get off after the bars before they head home.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys only into gym bodies, guys with attitude.
GETTING IN: Check out Paddles' website for location and directions: http://paddlesnyc.com/

Sunday, October 19th



GOTHAM BEARS (Gramercy)
THE HOSTS SAY: “This is an all-inclusive party for all big men of different shapes, sizes, races, and their admirers. Bringing the Bear Community together for hot steamy afternoon fun. A great way for anyone looking to get off before the weekend wraps up."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Social and Friendly
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $25, and clothes-check gratuities are appreciated
SUPPLIES: Condoms and Lube
TIME: 1pm-6pm
FREQUENCY: Weekly
CROWD: 40-50 guys, all welcome: bears, cubs, chubs, otters, wolves, and bulls
AGE: All ages (over 21)
SPACE: Private duplex apartment with two bathrooms
LIGHTING: Good, some darker rooms upstairs
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who enjoy hooking up with hairy masculine men. Friendly, outgoing individuals who enjoy interracial interaction. Men into facial hair, tattoos, and fur-covered action.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys. Men with racial hang-ups. Guys who like to parTy.
GETTING IN: Request invite at: gothambearsnyc@gmail.com. You can find more info at: www.gayguysglobal.net


THE BEAR PARTY (Chelsea)
THE HOST SAYS: "NYC's premier sex party for bears, cubs, chubs and chasers."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Laid back
SS/BB: S/S and BB. "We encourage safe sex and provide condoms and lube but don't police it. "
DONATION: $25
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube
TIME: 1:30 to 5:30pm
FREQUENCY: Weekly on Sundays
CROWD: 30-50 guys of all ages
LOCATION:Paddles club, basement level
LIGHTING: Good, dark in some rooms
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races, average and out-of-shape guys.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies. Guys who like to parTy.
GETTING IN: For more info you may contact info@bearpartynyc.com or go to bearpartynyc.com to join

NEW YORK JACKS (Midtown) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off.
THE HOSTS SAY: "Get naked with us and enjoy man to man cock play....Mutual masturbation between consenting adults is legal and safe. Probably the safest activity you can do except for solo J/O. We are a friendly group of guys and we are all there for the same reason and to have fun. You'll see guys there of all ages, body types, sizes, etc. There will be tall, short, hairy, well endowed, young, older, all races, gay, married, bi-, etc. We don't discriminate against physical attributes, only inappropriate behavior."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS/BB: N/A 
DONATION: $25 ($20 with membership card)
SUPPLIES: N/A
TIME: Doors open 4pm to 6pm, jerking until 7pm. 
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday and Tuesday. (Check for different hours on Tuesday)
CROWD: Varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. (Usual attendance numbers have not been given.)
AGES: 18-60s
SS/BB: N/A
SPACE: A loft-type space
SUPPLIES: N/A
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Request location and directions at their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

GOLDEN SHOWERS ASSOCIATION - GSA-NYC (Park Slope, Brooklyn)
THE HOSTS SAY: "NYC's longest-running water sports party and still going strong."
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Social, friendly, and sexual 

SS / BB: Safe Sex
DONATION: $20, includes beverages and coat check
SUPPLIES: Free beverages, condoms, lube, latex gloves, hand sanitizer, mouthwash, sweet snacks, cotton bath towels for shower
TIME: Door is open from 5pm to 6:30pm
FREQUENCY: Monthly on Friday evenings or Sunday late afternoons, and the occasional Saturday
CROWD: 80-110 men with a broad mix of ages, ethnicities, and body types. Very racially diverse.
AGE: Must be 21+, but all ages are represented and welcomed.
SPACE: A basement "dungeon" in a private residence, with a maze, glory holes, a prison, 5 beds, 3 slings, tubs, plus bathroom facilities: toilets, urinals, sinks, and shower.
LIGHTING: Mostly moderate red lighting. No areas completely dark.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Water sports activities, safer sex, cigarette/cigar-free, friendly, no-attitude men.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who want to bareback or  "parTy." Barebacking and drug taking are strictly NOT allowed. Also not good for men with attitude.
GETTING IN: No "Door List" but attendees must be referred or be on e-mail list. Discretion at the door, please. To join e-mail list, write to: gsa-nyc@earthlink.net



THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens) Large party in a huge industrial loft-type space with private rooms, booths, a "cinema lounge" and one particularly dubious pitch-black area. Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. A good party for average guys.
THE HOST SAYS: "Hot playground with mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Laid back
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $17
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
TIME: 6pm-2am
FREQUENCY: Every Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SPACE: former warehouse-type space loft
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces pitch black
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races especially Latinos, average and out-of-shape guys, guys into anon scenes.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies.
GETTING IN: For more party info contact the hosts at playgroundqueens@aol.com




NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea) For anyone who has a taste for sex with a kinky side (leather, rope, spanking, etc) it's a good place to get satisfied on a Sunday night. Sex is no longer banned. Sucking, fucking, whatever, are all allowed now at all times. It's common to see guys tied down and fucked. Or a dom directing sex between two roped subs.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 7pm-2am
CROWD: varies
AGE: It's always a mixed crowd in terms of age.
SS/BB: Safe sex
SPACE: Held in a BDSM club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off.
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday night
LIGHTING: At 11pm they turn down the lights in all areas except the bar at the front. In these darker areas, there's now a dress code of no street clothes. You have to wear no more than underwear, or you can wear fetish wear (leather, rubber, and the like).
GETTING IN: Check out the site at www.NYBondageClub.com

FUSION (Chelsea) One of the “Chelsea Duplex Parties” held in a space close to Penn Station. 
THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."

VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective 
VIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party) 
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always available
TIME: 8pm to 1am (doors close at Midnight)
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday and Thursday (Safe-Sex-only parties are Fridays and Tuesdays.)
CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men. 
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s. 
SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levels
LIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenance 
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude. 
GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.



THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks.
THE HOSTS SAYS: "Weekly sex parties in Brooklyn NY for in-shape men of color and a very very select few whites who send pics and get approved....I have the biggest and best Safe Sex party that continues to grow and become more popular. My parties are discrete and well organized. No shirts or under shirts are allowed. If your stomach is too big, you will not get in. No weed smoking or illegal drugs are allowed. I provide a safe, comfortable, spacious environment for men of color."

UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS / BB: Safe sex only
DONATION: $15
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, refreshments, fresh clean towels
TIME: 9pm-3am
FREQUENCY: held every Friday, Sat and Sunday
CROWD: Varies
AGE: 18-40
SPACE: Huge space, two floors.
LIGHTING: A bit dark but eyes get used to it.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Men of color, men into men of color, men who like to play safe
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Barebackers, out of shape guys.
GETTING IN: Check out http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@alisthomeinspection.com with your pics and stats.



FINAL DESTINATION (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). From the host: "This is an all nude party. No exception and no negotiation about it at all. Strip at door. For fit men in shape only, no one waist over 36 will not get in." 
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: no attitude.
TIME: SUN. 11:30pm-4am  
CROWD: AGES: mostly 20s and 30s, few in-shape men in their 40s
DONATION: $10 all night
SS/BB: A safe sex party
SPACE: private apartment
SUPPLIES: Drinks, snacks, condoms/lube
FREQUENCY:  Sundays, Tuesdays and Thursdays. 
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to finaldestination1514@yahoo.com


Monday, October 20th

MATRIX MONDAY (Astoria, Queens) From the host: "New and upscale spa party for men only every Monday. 7000 sq feet beautiful spacious spa with Jacuzzi, steam rooms, Saunas, swimming pool, open showers, lockers, bar/lounge, VIP rooms and massage rooms. Clothing Optional."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door (18+Party, 21+ drink) 
VIBE: No Attitude, calm, relaxed, peaceful, with friendly English-speaking staff
TIME: 2pm to 10pm
CROWD: 70-90 guys (it's really quiet 2pm-5pm; after 6pm its the busiest)
COST: $40 everything included. Jr Pass (18-26yrs old) $30
AGE: All ages 18-65 and races welcome to attend
SUPPLIES: "We provide everything. Spa essentials, towels, lockers with locks, fruit and snacks."
FREQUENCY: Every Monday
LIGHTING: Dimmed low, relaxed atmosphere
GETTING IN: matrixmonday@yahoo.com 

JACKS OF COLOR "MASSAGE AND PLAY MONDAY" (Chelsea)  Jacks of Color (often referred to simply as J.O.C.) is a New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends."  One of my favorite of the "open door" general admission parties. It’s huge and has themed parties including leather, massage, and afternoons on weekends. And the host is one of the sweetest guys I've ever had the pleasure of meeting.  
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: doors 7:00 to Midnight, goes 'til 2am
CROWD: 50-70
AGE: 18-60s
SS/BB: some safe sex, but also quite a bit of BB
SPACE: Paddles
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Every Monday night, and often other weekday nights and weekends.
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to JacksOfColor@gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com


HANDSOMENYC.COM (Astoria, Queens) Host Hunteur brings his party to Astoria on Monday nights to the Rainbow Playground, home of the Omega parties. 
THE HOST SAYS: “So many parties out there are all about the ‘sleaze.’ What’s wrong with bonding with a great group of exceptional, intelligent men- the sexy 'guy next door' type? All races welcome. This is a place to enjoy the company of handsome and good-hearted great quality guys with sense of community. We are supportive of the artistic community with nights devoted to the arts. Guest appearance by porn stars, fantasy dress up, as well as fun giveaways (underwear and porn), and great promotions to pull in hotter guys."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective 
VIBE: No attitude
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $22 
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, cookies/cake, refreshments
TIME: 8pm to 3am, doors close at 1am. 
FREQUENCY: Every Monday night
CROWD: Average attendance is 30 to 60 great quality guys 
AGE: 23 to 55-ish
SPACE: A large industrial loft-type space with many private cabins and rooms and a cinema lounge.
LIGHTING: big space, 5000 sq. feet with several different lighting levels
A GOOD PARTY FOR: those who want an erotic connection with upscale sexy guys.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: guys with attitude or 'high-maintenance" types. The host is “looking for happy and upbeat dudes that want to add their good energy to the night.”
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to Oliver at (hunteur1@gmail.com). You can find more info at (http://www.HandsomeNYC.com).

MUSCLE GROUP (West Harlem/w140s). This is a small sex party in a private apartment. This party can be hit and miss depending on how many and who show up, but when it's "hit" it can be a very hot party indeed. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies in the city. At most parties guys are having sex one-on-one or in threesomes--at this one there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking and sucking off each other.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 9:30-11pm, occasionally lunch parties
CROWD: 4-10 guys, racially mixed very hot to average
AGES: 18-40 YOs
DONATION: Free
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
SPACE: small studio apartment
SUPPLIES: condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: parties at random, but often on Mondays,
LIGHTING: Excellent
GETTING IN: Send pics and Stats to: BIHUNKGROUP@aol.com

Tuesday, October 21st

NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off.
THE HOSTS SAY: "Get naked with us and enjoy man to man cock play....Mutual masturbation between consenting adults is legal and safe. Probably the safest activity you can do except for solo J/O. We are a friendly group of guys and we are all there for the same reason and to have fun. You'll see guys there of all ages, body types, sizes, etc. There will be tall, short, hairy, well endowed, young, older, all races, gay, married, bi-, etc. We don't discriminate against physical attributes, only inappropriate behavior."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS/BB: N/A 
DONATION: $25 ($20 with membership card)
SUPPLIES: N/A
TIME: Doors open 7pm to 9pm, jerking until 10pm
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday and Tuesday. (Check for different hours on Sunday.)
CROWD: Varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. (Usual attendance numbers have not been given.)
AGES: 18-60s
SS/BB: N/A
SPACE: Paddles Sex Club 
SUPPLIES: N/A
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Request location and directions at their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

LITTLE RICHARDS (Gramercy) New sex party offering a safe, clean, and comfortable environment for men with small dicks and all small dick lovers to come together without feeling self-conscious, embarrassed, or inadequate. Our guests do not pass judgment on what others have (or haven't got) between their legs, nor need certain physical requirements to enjoy themselves.
FROM THE HOSTS: Our goal is to provide a good time in an attitude-free, non-intimidating atmosphere for hot m2m action. Penis size does not matter. Gay, bi, married, tops, bottoms, vers, muscle, bears, chubs, cubs, twinks, military, business men, exhibitionists, voyeurs, White, Asian, African-American, Latino - all are welcome! It's time to show your small penis and here is the place where you can show it and get off!
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Social and Friendly
SS/BB: Safe sex
DONATION: $20 entry includes secure clothes check; gratuities appreciated
SUPPLIES: Condoms and lube
TIME: 8:00 – 11:00pm; doors close at 10:30pm
FREQUENCY: Every Tuesday night
AGE: 21 and over
SPACE: Private penthouse apartment with bathroom
LIGHTING: Dimly lit for group sex orgy
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with small dicks and small dick admirers who enjoy a diverse crowd; voyeurs, average and out-of-shape guys; tourists and visitors; guys who want to get off after work before they head home for the night; guys who enjoy hooking up with small dicked men for hot, hard-core, no-attitude fun; shy and outgoing individuals who enjoy interracial interaction.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with attitudes; guys who like to ParTy; or insecure guys who are endlessly hunting for perfection

GETTING IN: Send request and e-mail address to Jack at littlerichardsnyc@gmail.com for invite and party details.



MMX EDGE EVENING (Chelsea) 
THE HOST SAYS: “A 90-minute JO party like no other. Guys form a circle and start off with some stress reducing shoulder and neck massage, slowly making their way down to a hard cock and undressing each other. Edging techniques are demonstrated to prolong release and use energy to attempt a full body orgasm. Small groups form and lots of hot cock stroking happens - when the group hits that wave, the two bukakke guys drop to their knees.....It’s Hot, Safe, and Loads of Fun!" MMX is also hosting a special "Touch Asylum Haunted House" experience. You can read up about it at www.mmxnyc.com/touchasylum.
VERIFIED SPECIFICS 
DOOR POLICY: Very Selective
DONATION: $20. Mention Adventures in Group Sex and Save $5 off your first event.
VIBE: No attitude, social and friendly, nice guys 
SS/BB: A Safe Sex party
SUPPLIES: Lube, Blindfolds, Snacks, Water
TIME: 8:45pm to 10:30 pm (door closes at 8:55pm – no late-cummers) 
FREQUENCY: 2 times a month, days vary
CROWD: 15-35 guys, tight and in-shape friendly guys, all races.
AGES: 23 – 48
SPACE: A private professional large studio space near Union Square. 
LIGHTING: You can see everyone – Dimly Lit 
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Friendly in-shape horn-dogs into sensual fun sexy safe play with other hot guys. Mainly a 30s mixed -ace crowd from tight guys to big muscle boys. 
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys looking for an anon scene or shy and modest guys who want to watch or stay in the corner. Guys who have attitude. 
GETTING IN: Members and member guests. Send request with stats and photos to mmxnyc@gmail.com or check out www.mmxnyc.com and join to get on our lists for Free. Mention Adventures and Save $5 off your first event. 

PEAK (Chelsea) One of the “Chelsea Duplex Parties” held in a space close to Penn Station.
THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."

VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating
SS/BB: Safe Sex
DONATION: $20 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party)
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always available
TIME: 8pm to 1am (doors close at Midnight)
FREQUENCY: Every Friday and Tuesday (Mixed Safe Sex and BB parties every Sunday and Thursday.)
CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men.
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s.
SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levels
LIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenance
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude.
GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.


Wednesday, October 22nd

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) "Slurpee Coach has the parties in his apartment."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective
VIBE: No Attitude
TIME: 7-11pm (Wednesday), early afternoon-evening (Saturday)
CROWD: TK
SS/BB: TK
SPACE: Private apartment
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY: weekly (Wednesday), occassionally (Saturday)
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com


HANDSOMENYC.COM (Chelsea) This party from host Hunteur replaces Hard Drive on Wednesdays. 
THE HOST SAYS: “So many parties out there are all about the ‘sleaze.’ What’s wrong with bonding with a great group of exceptional, intelligent men- the sexy 'guy next door' type? All races welcome. This is a place to enjoy the company of handsome and good-hearted great quality guys with sense of community, we also offer totally free STD Testing and referral to free health care for life and also referral to Harm Reduction Services. We have a permanent medical office on location. You do not need to pay the entrance fee to access our services- you may get tested and leave. We are supportive of the artistic community with nights devoted to the arts. Guest appearance by porn stars, fantasy dress up, as well as fun giveaways (underwear and porn), and great promotions to pull in hotter guys."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective 
VIBE: No attitude
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $22 before 9pm, $27 after, or use your silver VIP card for $22 admission all night long.
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, cookies/cake, refreshments
TIME: 8pm to 3am, doors close at 1am. 
FREQUENCY: Every Wednesday night
CROWD: Average attendance is 30 to 60 great quality guys 
AGE: 23 to 55-ish
SPACE: Paddles – a huge, clean, 5000 sq. feet of professional play space. A fully licensed Commercial Sex Venue licensed by the state and also licensed as a medical off-site testing facility with a  secure guarded area to keep your belongings locked up and safe.
LIGHTING: big space, 5000 sq. feet with several different lighting levels
A GOOD PARTY FOR: those who want an erotic connection with upscale sexy guys.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: guys with attitude or 'high-maintenance" types. The host is “looking for happy and upbeat dudes that want to add their good energy to the night.”
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to Oliver at (hunteur1@gmail.com). You can find more info at (http://www.HandsomeNYC.com).




PRIVATE PARTY (Midtown West) Great social sex party with a good mix of twinks to muscle dudes to toned average guys. This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before: social, safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude. The best part is that there is plenty of hot sex at this party – not just standing around. Recommended.
THE HOST SAYS: “PRIVATE PARTY is an exclusive monthly, all-nude, safe-sex and social event for well-built, well-groomed, handsome, professional men and students 18- 45. PRIVATE PARTY events are safe, discreet, friendly, completely drug-free and open only to our members. In order to maintain our standards all potential members are screened by phone prior to a brief confirmatory in-person interview. Members of this large organized group are in fine physical and mental shape ,work-out/exercise on a regular basis in addition to being confident, interesting and accomplished. This is a highly screened group who practice safe-sex and enjoy mixing and meeting in a drug-free, friendly, all-nude, social and sexual environment."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Very Selective
VIBE: Social and Friendly
SS/BB: A safe-sex party
DONATION: $25 and $1 clothes check
SUPPLIES: Drinks, snacks, condoms and lube, towels and shower amenities
TIME: 8:00pm-11:30 
FREQUENCY: Monthly, usually on a Wednesday 
CROWD: 80 to 100+ guys, mostly white collar professionals and students
AGE: 18-45 (no one over 45, average age is 25-35)
SPACE: Safe, clean private loft apartment
LIGHTING: Atmospheric lighting with full visibility while appropriate for the mood.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into well-build, well-groomed white-collar professionals and students, guys into safe-sex, guys into younger “twink” types, guys tired of the bar scene, first-timers.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into leather or other various fetishes. Guys into heavily-inked guys, guys into men with facial or body hair, guys into masculine beefy types. Guys who like to PnP.
GETTING IN: E-mail PRIVATE.PARTY@MSN.COM for complete info.



Thursday, October 23rd

EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy) 
THE HOSTS SAY: “Lunch-time party for businessmen looking to hook up weekday afternoons, offering guys who generally can't play during the evening hours (because of wives, girlfriends, boyfriends, or partnered) a chance to bust a quick afternoon nut in a large group setting.” 
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective 
VIBE: Social and Friendly 
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20 entry, and clothes-check gratuities are appreciated
SUPPLIES: Condoms and Lube 
TIME: 12pm-3pm 
FREQUENCY: weekly
CROWD: 30-40 guys, all races welcome, a mixture of gay, bi, and straight-curious men looking to explore their sexuality in a safe environment. 
AGE: 21-55, most guys in their 30's and 40's 
SPACE: private duplex apartment with two bathrooms 
LIGHTING: Good, some darker rooms upstairs 
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who enjoy hooking up with the suit-and-tie crowd. Friendly, outgoing individuals who enjoy interracial interaction. Men in their 30s and 40s and Jocks who like older Daddy types. Guys who find wedding rings a turn-on. 
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys. Men with racial hang-ups. Guys who like to parTy. 
GETTING IN: Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) and Stats to: executivelunchnyc@gmail.com. You can find more info at: www.gayguysglobal.net

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens) Large party in a huge industrial loft-type space with private rooms, booths, a "cinema lounge" and one particularly dubious pitch-black area. Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. A good party for average guys.
THE HOST SAYS: "Hot playground with mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Laid back
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $15
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
TIME: 5:30pm-3am
FREQUENCY: Every Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SPACE: former warehouse-type space loft
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces pitch black
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races especially Latinos, average and out-of-shape guys, guys into anon scenes.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies.
GETTING IN: For more party info contact the hosts at playgroundqueens@aol.com

FUSION (Chelsea) One of the “Chelsea Duplex Parties” held in a space close to Penn Station. 
THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."

VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective 
VIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party) 
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always available
TIME: 
5pm to 10pm (doors close at 9pm)
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday and Thursday (Safe-Sex-only parties are Fridays and Tuesdays.)
CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men. 
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s. 
SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levels
LIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenance 
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude. 
GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.

FINAL DESTINATION (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). From the host: "This is an all nude party. No exception and no negotiation about it at all. Strip at door. For fit men in shape only, no one waist over 36 will not get in." 
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: no attitude.
TIME: SUN. 11:30pm-4am  
CROWD: AGES: mostly 20s and 30s, few in-shape men in their 40s
DONATION: $10 all night
SS/BB: A safe sex party
SPACE: private apartment
SUPPLIES: Drinks, snacks, condoms/lube
FREQUENCY:  Sundays, Tuesdays and Thursdays. 
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to finaldestination1514@yahoo.com


See you there men!